How to punish a cat correctly?
Did the cat interfere with your sleep at
night again? Shouted at 5 am? Have you marked the corners? For the ninth time,
knocked a flowerpot off the windowsill and placed a pile in the middle of the
kitchen when you were already late for work? Which of the following do you
think require punishment? Should a cat be punished at all? And if so, how?
About this in our article.
Why are cats being mischievous?
Cats have lived side by side with humans
for almost 10,000 years. But they still remain a mystery to us: we absolutely
do not understand many of their habits. We tend to explain them from a human
point of view and endow cats with our views and motives. But this does not
work, and sometimes it is harmful.
The main thing that needs to be understood
for every owner is that cats never do anything on purpose to annoy us.
A cat can "play pranks" when it
is bad, painful, uncomfortable, exciting, or when it is influenced by instincts
inherent in nature.
Often we do not understand the reasons for
"bad" behavior and make the simplest conclusion for us: they say, she
wants to annoy me so much. But there are no such motives in the feline world.
Every act of the cat is guided by something more practical and serious than an
empty desire for revenge.
Let's take the most "terrible"
faults of cats. For example, do your little things on the pillow. The owner
thinks that the cat is taking revenge on him for something (maybe for the fact
that he didn't give the sausage yesterday), but in reality the cat may have an ICD. Sometimes animals simply cannot control urination, and the marks occur
unconsciously.
And ignoring the tray? Think the cat is
bad? Or maybe it's a filler that scares off with its smells or hissing sounds
when absorbing urine? Or in a litter box that about 2 out of 3 cats hate? Or
maybe the tray is in an uncomfortable passageway?
Another example is the passion of cats to
drink water from the toilet. This habit is easily explained by
zoopsychologists. By nature, cats tend to drink water from flowing sources,
away from the place of eating. This is why your beauty prefers not a clean
metal bowl in the kitchen next to dry food, but a toilet or sink.
When resorting to punishment, you must be
sure that it is necessary. What if the cat needs help, not punishment?
Punishing the cat
Can a cat be punished?
Before you punish a cat, you need to think
about what you are punishing it for. For real offense? Or for natural instinct?
In the case of a second punishment, it is completely meaningless. On the
contrary, they will destroy all trust and love between you.
The squeak of a kitten calling for mom,
March screams at night, "burying" their affairs, jealousy of a new
dog - all these are not bad habits and not attempts to make you unhappy, but
completely normal behavioral features that should not be angry.
When there is a problem, it is important to
understand the cause and consider if you can solve it peacefully. Consider why
a cat behaves this way and not another? What can you do to make her more
comfortable and change her behavior? If you do not understand the motivations
for feline behavior, consult with a zoopsychologist. He will help you see the
situation through the eyes of a cat and tell you how to proceed. Maybe no
punishment will be required!
However, this does not mean that you need
to close your eyes to unwanted behavior. As a good owner, you should be able to
set boundaries and instill in your pet basic norms of behavior. For example, do
not spoil furniture and wallpaper, do not climb the table, do not walk past the
tray. Therefore, if peaceful solutions to the problem do not help, you will
have to proceed with punishment. But for it to work, you need to punish correctly.
How to punish a cat correctly?
Cats are strong and independent animals.
They walk on their own and do not tolerate violation of personal space. The
path to friendship with a cat is through respect for her person and gentle but
persistent setting of boundaries.
Any manifestations of aggression: loud
shouts, reprimands, the use of physical force in dealing with a cat are
unacceptable. There has never been a single example in history when such an
approach would be beneficial. All this only increases stress and pushes the cat
to other unwanted actions. But worst of all, it instills fear in the cat, makes
it nervous, kills trust in the owner. Imagine if you couldn't feel safe in your
own home? What good behavior can we talk about here?
How then to punish the cat? How to convey
that she is committing an inappropriate action? These three rules work:
1. Timeliness
The most important thing is that you can
only punish a cat at the moment of misconduct. The cat's brain is designed in
such a way that after a couple of minutes she will not remember her action and
will not understand why she is being punished. The lesson will not be learned,
and the cat will fall into a state of shock, never understanding why the
beloved owner treated her so cruelly.
Remember: you can punish a cat only in the
moment "here and now", when you caught her committing an offense.
If, after returning home after work, you find
a broken pot with a violet, do not even bother to punish the cat for this. She
has already forgotten about that pot 200 times, and the punishment is
completely pointless.
2. Sequence
Decide once and for all which behavior is
acceptable for your cat and which is not. And strictly adhere to this plan:
either prohibit always, or do not prohibit at all. For example, if you do not
allow your cat to climb on the table, then the next time, do not be moved to
find her stealing sour cream from your plate of dumplings.
3. Correct punishment
The cat can be affected by loud noises
(such as clapping your hands or rattling) - this simple method works great.
When you catch a cat doing something wrong, say its name loudly to get
attention and clap your hands (or make another loud sound, but not a scream).
Repeat this every time your cat breaks the rules.
As a heavy artillery, you can use a spray
bottle - sprinkle water on the cat at the time of the offense. And even in the
most severe cases, it is permissible symbolically, to gently shake the cat by
the scruff of the neck - this is if you are already very angry. This is the
maximum punishment a loving, thinking owner can afford.
Shouts, assault, throwing objects
(including slippers), poking your nose into a "puddle", locking
yourself in the toilet, starving diets are not punishment, but cruelty to
animals.
How to punish a cat correctly
Focus not on punishment, but on rewarding
good behavior. Remember to give your cat compliments and treats when she is
behaving. For example, if today your cat went to sharpen its claws on a new
scratching post, and not on your favorite chair as usual, be sure to scratch it
behind the ear and treat it with your favorite treat. After a few such
repetitions, the cat will understand the pattern of "action-reward"
and will not exchange its scratching post for any other chair in the world!
Patience and work will grind everything,
and love and care are the best keys to good pet behavior. We wish you good
luck!
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